Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Let's Talk About Sex!

No, seriously let's talk about it. :P

There are many things that I love to talk about (as you all know from my previous ramblings) and sex is definitely high up on that list. What does it feel like? How good does it feel? How and when and even where do you like to have it (Oooooh)? All of these topics, and more, are fascinating to me.

However, among some of the women that I’ve come across sex seems to be a taboo subject. We don't want to talk about it, or maybe we don't want people to know that we talk about it. We act like we don't think about it but is that really the case? I am always hearing about how it’s not the physical act that makes sex special for us but the emotions behind the act. Is that really true for all of us?
Why do some women act like something is so wrong with being into just the physical act. Maybe not all of the time but surely some times it’s okay, right? It feels good doesn’t it? Hell sometimes for me it's so mind numbingly awesome I just want to sit in the corner and suck my thumb. *fans*

Oops sorry I got distracted by the thought of mind numbingly good, thumb sucking sex. Anyway, I personally am a fan of both. Sometimes I want the sweet romantic type but sometimes (okay most of the time) I want the earth shattering climax from an intense session. Am I alone?

Women of the world please tell me what you think about sex. Is it all about the emotion or the physical feeling for you? Or is it a bit of both? Do you shy away from talking about it or do you just let it all hang out? Don’t be shy here. Drop me a line and tell me how you feel.



Thanks for stopping by.

5 comments:

lissa said...

Okay, I'll talk! I love sex and I'm not shy about talking about it, writing about it, thinking about it, contemplating it, etc...

I love the emotional bond of sex at times, but most times, I just want it hard and rough and naughty. Sue me! I want the passion, the heat. I want the 'without a doubt' lust! It's after that, that I crave the emotion, the more than physical connection...

*damn, so much for the halo*

Ciar Cullen said...

Uh oh. I'm not good talking about it. Easier to write about it. My mom told me I'd burn in hell or something. I'll leave it to you and Lissa to do the talking. But be careful, Lauren. I heard a statistic that the brits have less sex but talk about it more than any country. You don't want to fall into that category now, do you?

Anonymous said...

Roflmao Ciar! Lauren is definitely not crossing the line into that category.

Ok, I admit, not much of a talker when it comes to this particular topic. To be honest, I think it's probably because I can't remember ever having mind numbing, thumb sucking sex. Probably would die from orgasm overload if I ever did experience such ecstasy.

And not that I imagine anyone who knows my family would be popping in here, I am seriously going incognito on this post. Lauren might guess my identity though. ;)

Lauren Murphy said...

Ha Ha Ciar I'll have to agree with anonymous there. I think I would shrivel up and die if I fell into that category. *shudders* But I will admit you are damn good at writing it. Woohoo go Ciar!

And anonymous you are too cute! I bet if you wrote a sex scene you'd blush while doing it. I do have to admit though, this orgasm overload that you speak of sounds like a good thing and if that were to happen I would die a happy woman lol!


And Lissa I think we are kindred spirits hun. Now please get out of my head it's getting crowded in there. :P

Bethanne said...

I understand how people want to keep sex a personal thing. I don't mind talking about it, but it's not very likely to come up anyway unless I'm discussing a book with a friend...or my book. LOL. Just because people aren't talking about it, doesn't mean they aren't having great sex. :) I'm sure I think about it more than I do talk about it, except for with the Man. I drive him crazy with my innuendos... I can't help it. I'm 32 and likely reaching some sort of sexual pinnacle. LOL. funny about the British, Ciar. Maybe I should start a poll...